The Bitch in the House : 26 Women Tell the Truth About Sex, Solitude, Work, Motherhood, and Marriage by Cathi Hanauer
C’mon, admit it, you’ve felt that way more than once.  But don’t judge a book by its cover.  This isn’t a book about raging, hormonal women.  It is a collection of 26 essays from various woman authors sharing their personal accounts of what it's like to be a woman today.

There is something for everyone in this collection.  We hear from single women, married women, soon-to-be married women, divorced women, women with children, women without children, grandmothers, single mothers, women having affairs, women with traditional and non-traditional life-styles, and so on.  These women offer us a big slice of their lives as they tell their personal stories about sex, solitude, work, motherhood and marriage.  There is something oddly intimate about this book.  While reading it, many times I felt like I was having a conversation with a girlfriend.

 

As a modern woman (juggling career, marriage, children, household), I often find myself frustrated or angry, and it's mostly because there isn’t enough time for me as an individual.  Of course, I feel horrible about it.  Honestly, what is there to complain about?  Compared to most of the rest of the world I’m privileged, and I do live a nice, albeit somewhat boring, life.  However, after reading this book, I felt better and not alone in my thoughts.  It’s not that these women offer solutions.  It was the commonality of feelings and experiences that caused me to feel a bond with many of them.  They expressed their frustration and anger in a normal conversational manner, just like a girlfriend would, and I didn’t feel as though I was being bombarded with hateful, cynical words or views.  Who knows, perhaps being a bitch in the house once in awhile is just part of being a woman these days.

 
About the author:  Cathi Hanauer, the author of the novel My Sister's Bones, has written articles, essays, reviews, and fiction for Elle, Mirabella, Self, Glamour, Mademoiselle, and many other magazines. She lives in western Massachusetts with her husband, writer Daniel Jones, and their daughter and son.

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